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If I strain my brain I can picture flat tires, failing brakes, an air filter installed backwards, lost keys, check engine warnings, rear enders, side swipes, road rage, blizzard conditions, the wings of my mother’s 1957 Plymouth, the magic powder that stopped my Olds’ radiator leak, the stink of my diesel Benz, my ’66 Mustang midnight blue convertible (correct, it wasn’t all relentlessly bad and sad), and assorted other automotive anecdotes from my dimming past.  But the following is fresh in my mind, and its engine is still running:

Maybe I should have subpoenaed my grandchildren as character witnesses?

I thought I could avoid the trouble of parallel parking by going front end first into the space and then, as I approached the curb, spinning my steering wheel hard left so as to swivel my chassis rightward, and hit my spot like a figure skater completing her double lutz.  A very elegant conception with, as it turns out, an unanticipated degree of difficulty.

As I effectuated my swivel I misjudged, by no more than an inch, the leeway between my right rear flank and the protruding front bumper of the parked Audi sedan which I was seeking to park in front of.  The vehicles kissed—a slight graze of my flank against the Audi’s protruding front bumper—which the Audi could claim with some credibility was a non-consensual kiss, as the Audi was just parked there minding its own business, notwithstanding a more cynical view that the protruding bumper was looking for it.  The kiss was audible (pardon the near pun) for a nanosecond of grinding plastic on plastic (since my vehicle was also an Audi, I could call it a nanosecond of grinding Audi on Audi).

I got out to inspect the damage, if any.  There appeared to be some white dust, residue of stressed (caressed) plastic on the Audi (the victim Audi) bumper and its surrounding cheeks, evidencing the area of the kiss like a lip stick smear. With my moistened thumb I wiped away much of the white dust.  For a moment I thought I had dodged an expensive bullet.

I planned to leave a note of explanation on the victim Audi windshield, apologizing for the nearly undetectable episode, adding a “…but call me if you are so inclined.”  As I looked for a pen in my glove compartment, the victim Audi owner appeared.  Gracious to a fault, I leapt up to greet her, doffed my hat as it were, and advised her of the good news that no harm was done. “You see”, I said, “the while dust disappears with the rub of my moist thumb…”

She was not so elated as I.  She thanked me for sticking around—“…a lot of folks would just hit and run…” she said with a wan smile—and proceeded to eyeball her bumper and surrounding cheeks for a long and thorough while.  “Let’s exchange contact information,” she said.  “I’ll show it to my garage guy. I think you’re probably right, that it’s no big thing, but…”

It turned out that she came up with a garage guy repair estimate of $1,200, which I thought was ridiculous.  I offered her cash of $700, which was about $675 more than I valued the damage, if any.  I wanted to avoid the uncertainty, and possible premium increase, of insurance company involvement.  But she rejected my offer, driving me into the institutional arms of my insurance company.  “Fine”, I said to myself.  “I bet she’ll regret not grabbing the $700.”

I was wrong about that.  Through the wizardry of modern accident inspection and appraisal services, my insurance company paid out $4,000.  I said, “What?”

Then I said, “What for?”

I appealed for re-consideration, but the payout was affirmed.  I was told an expensive little bumper grommet was damaged, and needed to be replaced, plus labor.

“Geez,” I said.

Then I lost my next appeal.

I’d been ticketed for speeding on Route 6A en route to Wellfleet, in December 2020, at the height of pandemic panic.  Pre-vaccine.  I was driving to see my daughter and her family (two kids, one dog, one lizard, one husband) who were sheltering out the pandemic in her husband’s family’s Cape home.  I hadn’t seen them in close to a year.  I was eager to arrive.  I was bringing many gifts.  I was traveling briskly, but I deny culpability for speeding.  I recall being in a line of traffic.

I appealed the ticket.  I was given a zoom hearing before a magistrate a few months later.  I told my story, emphasizing my excellent driving record, and the difficulty the police officer may have had in accurately estimating my speed while traveling past me in the opposite direction, and that in any event I was in a line of traffic.  The wise magistrate ruled that if I incurred “no new incidents” on my driving record in the next 6 months, the ticket (including the significant fine attached thereto) would be dismissed.  I thanked her.

I assumed that “no new incidents” meant no new speeding tickets, or the like.  Wouldn’t you?  But to my surprise, the Audi kiss and subsequent pay-out was deemed by the authorities to constitute a “new incident.”  My ticket and its fine were automatically re-instated.

I appealed the injustice of the re-instatement and of the underlying ticket to the judge.  I lost.  I paid the fine, increased by the cost charged for taking the appeal.  I await to see the effect of the ticket and kiss incidents on my insurance premium.  And I grouse.  I’ve convinced myself that there was a win hidden in this material, and I rue that I didn’t find it.  Maybe I should have been more humble and apologetic?  Maybe I should have more forcefully interrogated the police officer?  Maybe I should have prepared a compelling graphic?  Maybe I should have subpoenaed my grandchildren as character witnesses?  Maybe I should have dressed down, and not worn the lawyer costume (white shirt, striped tie, dark suit)?  Maybe this and maybe that.  I feel like I am Bill Murray trying over and over to catch the elusive heart of Andi MacDowell.


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Here is what I said about myself on the back page of my 2020 humor/drama/politico novel "The Debutante (and the Bomb Factory)" (edited here, for clarity):

"Jonathan Canter Is a retIred attorney; widower; devoted father and grandfather (sounds like my obit); lifelong resident of Greater Boston; graduate of Harvard College (where he was an editor of The Harvard Lampoon); fan of waves and wolves; sporadic writer of dry and sometimes dark humor (see "Lucky Leonardo" (Sourcebooks, 2004), funny to the edge of tears); gamesman (see "A Crapshooter’s Companion"(2019), existential thriller and life manual); and part-time student of various ephemeral things."

The Deb and Lucky are available on Amazon. The Crapshooter is available by request to the author in exchange for a dinner invitation.

Characterizations: funny, well written


  1. Suzy says:

    Jon, wow, that’s car trouble times two! I feel vicariously both sad and angry! It does seem unfair that your Audi “kiss” would count against you and cause your speeding ticket to be reinstated.

    Now tell us about the magic powder that stopped your Olds’ radiator leak, so we can feel happy again. Was the magic powder ingested by you, or by the car?

    • I think one lesson to be learned is to be mindful when parking, especially after the age of 72, and another is to not underestimate the cost to repair anything, and another is to avoid the appearance of speeding ( which may mean not driving a Batmanesque Audi), and another is to figure out a way to convince the judge to acquit. In retrospect I wish I had pled for mercy.
      As to the magic sauce, we were up in Saratoga when the radiator of my Olds Omega (?) sprung a leak and the garage guys were talking big time radiator replacement (as if I had any money to spare after two days at the races), but then some wise old school mechanic sidled up to my car and said, “Son, you might try this…” and handed me a vial of gold dust. To pour into my radiator, not into myself. And after a couple minutes of circulating the stuff went right into the holes and plugged them, and I never had another leak for the life of the car. Miracle stuff. I wish I had been so lucky w the horses (or will be going forward…).

  2. I feel your pain Jon, but hope at least writing those appeal letters was cathartic

    We had an Audi we loved but it keep leaking. Our mechanic blamed a design flaw – he felt the car was low-slung and it’s underbelly would scrape bumps in the roadway.

    And in 1966 I too had a Mustang convertible- a red one we drove from New York to Denver. The only troublesome incident I remember was being hit by a mattress that flew off the roof of the car ahead of us.

    • So that’s what happened to my mattress. Sorry.
      I had a low-slung Audi that would pop a tire whenever it looked at a pot hole.
      And all my Audis have done some oil leaking. My dealer calls them growth spurts.
      With great fondness I remember my Mustang. It was stolen from the streets of Cambridge, and was arrested in a drug bust, but it was liberated from the police holding pen apparently because it’s innards remained packed w undiscovered drugs. And was never seen again.

  3. Ah Jon, I know it’s worrisome when our kids get in trouble hanging with the wrong crowd!

  4. Laurie Levy says:

    This is a wonderful story. I loved your description of the “kiss” of your accident, as well as the explanation for your speeding ticket. Plus, you threw in a figure skating reference, which I really appreciated. You was robbed!

  5. John Shutkin says:

    Sadly, Jon, I can attest to the fact that a :kiss” (though my preferred word is “ding” can be an expensive proposition for repair. As a result, despite my generally fastidious attention to my car’s appearance, I have decided on living with several dings the last few years, in all cases seemingly caused by the guys plowing out the driveway in our condo complex (but since I’ve never been there to witness the dings, my claims are purely circumstantial and, of course, the plowing company denies all liability).

    The one ding I caused on another car in a restaurant parking lot — really caused by another car’s failure to give me enough room to squeeze by, but so be it) — I decided that I would be a mellow retiree rather than a still-fierce litigator and just offered to pay the repair cost — which was,, of course, in four figures (no cents included). As it would appear that Betsy is also discovering with her car lock problem, there is no repair too small these days that it will not demand the replacement of a large body part.

    It would seem that surgeons are more successful with microsurgery than car mechanics.

  6. Betsy Pfau says:

    Jon, it seems very unfair that the kiss would count since it wasn’t a moving violation. And $4,000! My gracious! These cars are ridiculous to repair these days. I would grumble too.

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