This poem is about how my parents met in 1957 and about my memories of eating dinner as a small child in the 1960s. It’s “just” a first draft, but one I like enough to share.
My father appreciated every meal my mother prepared for him as if it were the best meal he'd ever eaten.
Liver and Onions
In 1957 if you lived in Boston
if you wanted to marry
your beliefs about the Virgin Mary
mattered more than love.
At the faculty club
she watched him bussing
tables, while she waited
tables, she was waiting
On Friday the club served fish
for Catholic faculty
and liver, fried with onions
She hated liver
but she ate it, her sacrificial
signal to the tall busboy
that she wasn’t one
who wouldn’t eat meat.
He ate fish for his dinner
in the kitchen, with the dishwashers.
In Boston, the fish
is always fresh.
Later, after they were married,
she would laugh
that she had worried,
and he would eat every meal
she placed in front of him
as if it were his last.
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Precious! You write with such lyricism, Jennifer. I’ve never thought of liver and onions as a metaphor for love. Thanks for sharing.
i LOVE liver and onions. Your story made me hungry.
I really enjoyed the poem. I hope you eventually do get it published somewhere. It reminds me of things you probably wouldn’t expect. We ate liver and onions ..which I never liked…as my mother so overcooked the meat that it had the texture of rubber. I also thought that liver and onions was a Jewish food, because, I don’t recall seeing any of my non Jewish friends eating liver and onions.
Thanks for the publishing encouragement!
Wonderful poem, Jennifer. And a great “how we met” story for your parents!