Some lost souls just don’t want to be found. For them, the span of their lives is judged not by the calendar nor the actuarial tables that insurance companies live and die by, nor by the average life spans computed by the American Heart Association. All of these objective measures of how long people may…
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Suprise Me
The Living Lost
Prompted By Ex-Friends
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Some lost souls just don’t want to be found. For them, the span of their lives is judged not by the calendar nor the actuarial tables that insurance companies live and die by, nor by the average life spans computed by the American Heart Association. All of these objective measures of how long people may…
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Intro to Cookery
Prompted By Learning To Cook
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Intro to Cookery We were still newlyweds when my husband’s company offered him the chance to work in their London office for a year and of course we took it! (See Valentine’s Day in Foggytown, Kinky Boots, and Laundry Day in London) I took a leave of absence from my job, we sublet our apartment, and…
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How I Got My Equity Card
Prompted By Working
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Snap, Crackle, Pop
Prompted By Advertising Jingles and Slogans
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Kids! Try this at home!
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Happy 40th!
Prompted By Surprise!
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Dan didn’t like surprise parties. He didn’t want one for his 30th, so a bunch of his work buddies convinced me to hire a belly dancer to come to the office for his 32nd. He still hasn’t forgiven me. As his 40th approached, our lives had changed. We had two young children, I no longer…
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Passed Out in the Library
Prompted By The ER
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Passed Out in the Library The last thing I remember was locking the door of the high school library at the end of the day. And then inexplicably I found myself seated at my desk, confused, and with an aching head. I had no memory of walking back to my office and sitting down at…
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My Out of Body Experience.
Prompted By Aging
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One of my favorite walking activities involves shutting my eyes for as long as I can. I choose sidewalks with grass on both sides, or smooth trails that are straight with no stones or potholes. The experience of temporary blindness allows me to enter the environment with no focus, no distractions except for the wind…
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Words with Suzy
Prompted By Games People Play
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Words with Suzy I’m not much of a gamester although both my parents played bridge, my dad played chess, and my mom played mah jongg, (See My Game Mother) Of course as a kid I certainly played Monopoly and all the other popular board games of the day, and in fact for years there was…
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I’m Persisting, I’m Speaking, and I’m Voting
Prompted By Buttons, Pins, and Badges
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Random thoughts from a nasty woman facing a long winter … One of my favorite political memes is “Nevertheless, she persisted,” said by Mitch McConnell to Elizabeth Warren back in February of 2017. She refused to be silenced while reading a letter into the Senate record written by Coretta Scott King opposing Jeff Sessions for…
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Great Moments in Parenting
Prompted By Parenthood
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Parents, we’ve all had these moments, right? Right?? One day my daughter invited a friend from school over to play. I’ll call this friend Jane, because that is her name. Jane was eight or nine–a year older than my daughter–and since her mom and I were friends, the girls had spent time together before, sometimes…
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