Suprise Me
Stopping by the Diner on a Snowy Evening
Prompted By Newspapers
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Who Slept Here?
Prompted By Basements and Attics
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We have a large, one-story house with a basement under most of it. About 800 square feet is finished space. The rest is broken into a series of storage and utility rooms; lots of good space, including direct entry into the garage through the laundry room. When we purchased the house in December, 1986, the…
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The Woman in the Hat
Prompted By Hats
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I’ve worn a lot of hats in my life. As an entrepreneur, I’ve been chief cook and bottle washer in probably a dozen small businesses from baking cheesecakes to designing greeting cards to writing books and everything entailed in getting them to market. But real hats? Maybe a handful, if that. I just don’t have…
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Don’t Believe Everything You Hear
Prompted By Gossip
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One balmy night, the full moon high, I walk into town, flip-flops slapping softly, and grab a seat on the patio at the local watering hole, the Tahiti Nui, where sits Shelley, my new drinking buddy. Halfway through our second or maybe third drink, up walks a guy she knows, Mike, who has a cute…
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Modern Primitives from the gay 90’s
Prompted By Tattoos and Piercings
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In San Francisco in the early 90’s it seemed like everyone from lawyers to street punks was getting pierced and tattooed. "Body Modification" was the buzzword with tattoo and piercing shops as ubiquitous as Starbucks. Above a popular sex club sat a large school to train would be piercers.
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Witnessing
Prompted By Something Wild
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A few days ago I had one of those experiences – the kind that you feel in your body before you know what it is – the kind that crystalizes some deep truth in your life. While walking in our local woods with my son, now 36, I noticed he had stopped behind me on…
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There Was an Interview Here
Prompted By Interviews
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In the Spring of 2016, I had the pleasure of being interviewed by one of my favorite teachers at Saint Mary’s College– Alex Green. Although I was a little bit nervous, Alex is such a great interviewer that I got comfortable onstage with him immediately. We were there to talk about my recently published memoir,…
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Almost Home
Prompted By Stuff
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We get reminders about hanging onto the past from ballads as well as memoirs.
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Belle & Zalman
Prompted By Grandparents & Grandchildren
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My mother’s parents came from Bialystock, still part of Russia when they met in 1902. I have a fancy dress from Grandma’s trousseau that she brought over on the ship. My mother was always proud that her family came over second-class, not steerage. My grandparents married in 1902 and were successful. She had a maid…
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